when Reciprocal relationship checked cant change connection

Hi, I"m trying to make relationship between CPT Work and CPT Press,
I want to be able to change the connection on both cpt pages and display the results on both single pages.

If i uncheck "Reciprocal relationship" i see and can change the connection and it's updates on both posts, but when i display in single.php i can see the selection only on single Work.
on single press i don't see the results. the code i"m using is bellow.

If i check the Reciprocal relationship, then i see the results on both single pages BUT i don't get the option to change the connection on CPT press - the connection area field appear only on work page.

I"m using

$connected = new WP_Query( [
        'relationship' => [
            'id'   => 'art-work-2-press',
            'from' => get_the_ID(), // You can pass object ID or full object
        ],
        'nopaging'     => true,
    ] );
    while ( $connected->have_posts() ) : $connected->the_post();
        ?>
        <a href="<?php the_permalink(); ?>"><?php the_title(); ?></a>
        <?php
    endwhile;
    wp_reset_postdata();

I"m missing something?
How can i make changes and display on both pages?

Thank you
Felix